Narrowing Down the Nursery

I’ve been looking at planning our nursery in a similar way to how we planned our wedding — we had a loose colour scheme and a general feeling/vibe we were going for, but the yellows didn’t match exactly, there was some random purple thrown in amongst the neutrals, and there wasn’t really a continuing thread tying every bit of decor together.

I’m not a huge fan of themes, in general. I’ve seen some great themed nurseries, really well put together, be it a nautical theme, owls, elephants, or what have you. But I think something strictly themed would clash with how I envision the rest of our living space — we seem to gravitate toward an eclectic collection of things that go but don’t match, if that makes sense. And, I’d rather have items that make us smile or have a sentimental twist than lamps that match my wallpaper.

Probably the biggest thing stopping us from an overall theme is that I refuse to buy traditional crib bedding. It’s really expensive, and a) you can’t use the quilt/blanket until your kid is older, and b) non-mesh bumpers are a no go in our household (Canadian health organizations recommend against them). I plan to save my money and get one fancy crib sheet, a crib skirt, and some cheaper, solid-coloured backup crib sheets.

With all that being said… I’m not sure what to do for the nursery. :) I thought we’d be going the yellow, green or orange route, and was gearing up to ask Matt if we could maaaaybe consider a neutral, when he came out of nowhere with, “I’m thinking gray for the nursery.” Awesome! I picked out CIL’s Barley Beige on a paint swatch card and really like it — I just have to tape it up in the space and decide if it’s still good (which will  hopefully happen sometime in August… that’s another story for another day).

Once we agreed on gray, I started formulating an idea — neutral walls, but lots of colour in the decor! No real theme pulling it all together aside from colour, but a few shout-outs to special things (there are so many cute cat art prints out there, I’ m telling you).

Baby Room 2

If you want to know the sources for any of this stuff let me know! But most of it is IKEA, including the crib, curtains, rug, light, pillow, and dresser. I plan to use a dresser with a Keekaroo/Cooshee style changer strapped to it rather than a traditional changing table and pad, and I also want to jazz up said dresser with some new hardware. Cute, bright, colourful, and not overly girly — we’re still trying to keep things somewhat neutral so it’s not a pink-splosion.

But… of course there’s a but… while crib sheet browsing I found this really cute woodland themed set. And Matt mentioned (again, out of nowhere), “I was thinking if anyone asks us if we have a theme we should say Northern Ontario kinda stuff… moose, bears, that kinda thing.”

While I don’t want a moose-spolsion as much as I don’t want a pink-splosion, I put together a board based on that crib sheet and a few woodland-esque things that go together but don’t match too much.

Babys Room 1

Again, mostly IKEA with a lot of Etsy thrown in! I don’t know if the rug really goes with it. This one seems a little more busy, but I love those sheets. So now I can’t decide.

[Having actually visited IKEA last weekend there's a few things we'd switch out now that we saw them in person, like the light fixtures, and both of these are just a guide, not a definite shopping list!]

What do you think? Does either one stick out? Or am I totally off base?

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One Great City

I think that we’re cursed when it comes to traveling. Something usually goes wrong, save for those few times we’ve made it to Southern Ontario unscathed. Last weekend we went to Winnipeg, and while it all worked out in the end, it was a bit of a jumble at times.

The first time we went there, it was on a whim, we got lost, and by the time we were booked into a hotel we were too tired to do anything so we ordered pizza, watched TV, and went home the next day. Trip #2 was my birthday which was all good except for the unrelenting cold wind coming THROUGH our vehicle, that had me sticking hand warmers in my shoes despite the heat being on full blast. And then there was a blizzard on the return trip.

The third and fourth time we went to Winnipeg together, we were actually going right through (or around, really) the city on our bike trip. The way out, I nearly bit through my tongue hitting a bump on the bike with our suspension set up all wrong. The way back, our exhaust literally fell off as we pulled into a gas station. You can see why it makes me a bit nervous to go to Winnipeg.

Last weekend’s trip started out with us leaving two hours later than I was hoping (busy schedules meant we weren’t able to get ready the night before, which put us behind the day of). We were still on track to get what we wanted to get done, just a little more rushed, but…
Leaking Transmission Fluid

Our windshield was getting splattered with bugs (because that’s what happens in the prairies). We needed more fluid. So we pulled into a service station near Prawda… where Matt looked in the rearview and questioned, “Is that smoke or dust?! … That’s smoke. That’s us. Okay, we should get out now.”

A delightful man standing nearby, who I’ll call Mr. Helpful, commented something to the effect of, “That sure is smoking.” And as Matt popped the hood, Mr. Helpful added in such gems as, “Could be oil. Could be overheated.” There was a trail of fluid that had dripped from the truck, which Mr. Helpful walked over to, looked at, proclaimed, “It’s transmission. Red.” Then he wandered off.

I don’t know a lot about vehicles but I do know that the word transmission is bad when combined with leaking fluid and smoke. Luckily we didn’t have any kind of ongoing leak (as established scientifically by Matt pouring in more fluid once the vehicle cooled down; me hunched over on the grass upside down yelling “I DON’T SEE ANYTHING”). The popular theory is that the hot, windy day, combined with prairie highway speeds — and the fact that our transmission fluid was… uh… really old — boiled the fluid over. So that was fun, and put us another hour or so behind.

We got to the hotel, hoping we could check in quickly, go get food and deal with some errands before our evening plans. But we walked into a wedding party and an assortment of guests who were also checking in. And then, by the time we got up to the room, we realized we only had two hours till dinner so there was no point in going for lunch. We had to go to the mall to get my wedding ring inspected, which was the whole reason for our trip, but my imagined leisurely stroll turned into GO GO GO IT CLOSES IN AN HOUR combined with me being ridiculously hangry.

Errand #2 — Babies ‘R’ Us. I wanted to scout out gear to put on our online registry. We ultimately found the stroller and car seat we want, but it wasn’t without tears (seriously, I cried in the parking lot). We managed to regroup and set out for the restaurant, where a bunch of my college friends who I hadn’t seen in ages were meeting us. I have to admit when Ken’s Restaurant was suggested I read the ‘lock your doors and don’t read up on the health violations’ reviews and wondered what we’d be eating, but a) it wasn’t that sketchy and b) it was really good!

The Forks

We headed to the Forks after that, listened to some music, ate some fudge and checked out the view. A few of us sat on a patio for drinks (the server offered me a beer glass so… I still think I’m not going to feel like I look pregnant ’till people stop including me in the pitcher servings :P ) until the bugs got so bad that nearly everyone had bailed. Matt and I had plans to see a movie so we said goodbye and headed out.

We saw Man of Steel in IMAX 3D — I’m not a superhero person so I can’t really comment on if it was off from the comic books or whatever, but I will say this: I don’t know if it was because it was 1:30 a.m. and I was really tired, but I’m pretty sure that half an hour worth of Epic Fight Scene could be cut out from that movie and you wouldn’t miss anything. The 3D was cool and frankly I was just going for the popcorn and the fact that we haven’t seen a theater movie together other than The Smurfs, but all the smashing the bad guys through buildings got kind of repetitive.

Hilariously, baby started squirming the second the IMAX sound system kicked in and kept it up until the movie was over.

Winnipeg Food

The next day we got off to a late start (again) but still enjoyed our hotel breakfast at Inn at the Forks (mine is on the left — bison sausage and really, really good bannock!). We wanted to go to IKEA to do some window shopping/future furniture purchase planning, which helped us determine what crib and high chair we want. Unfortunately we ended up totally missing out on seeing friends we were supposed to go to lunch with, but our big IKEA shopping list means we’ll be back! :)

With dead feet after going through the entire store item by item, we dropped into Mr. Lube to help out our poor sad transmission fluid, then meandered over to the Exchange District for poutine from Smoke’s (seen above — Matt got triple pork and I got Philly cheesesteak). There happened to be a jazz festival happening right in front of us so we got to enjoy some live music while we ate!

Winnipeg

Our last stop was Target, just because I wanted to go — and then we got out of town. Nothing exploded on the way back, though we did see a million moose.

I’m happy we got to indulge and visit people, and I’m equally happy we have to go back before November rolls around!

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The View From Here: Goals

Good morning everyone! How is your Monday so far? I, for one, am super tired — we went away over the weekend and I stayed up way past my bedtime two nights in a row. I’m looking forward to a nap. :)

The-View-From-Here-Logo

What are your short-term blogging goals? What are your long-term blogging goals?

Starting from the beginning… and I’m going to do this in point form!

Short Term Blogging Goals

  • Have more pre-drafted posts ready. I’ve been chasing my own tail on this for awhile — right now I’m about three days ahead but more often than not I have a gap in content because I get too busy/tired/whatever to come up with something, and I have no backup plan. I like posting every weekday, so I need to figure out more advance content!
  • Network more. I haven’t been part of a BlogTrends chat since I got pregnant — back to the whole ‘too tired’ thing. But there have been some great conversations that I missed, and I really enjoyed ‘meeting’ other bloggers that way! I don’t think I’ll be joining in tonight — my bed is calling my name a little too much — but it’s a goal to get back into.
  • Use more images in my posts. I’ve been slacking. :)

Long Term Blogging Goals

  • Meet some bloggers in real life! I’d love to go to a meetup or a conference, but I don’t see it happening for awhile.
  • Make a bit of money off the blog. Maybe this is controversial, maybe not. I already do make a bit of money but it’s pretty sporadic — I’d love to be able to contribute more to the household doing something that I enjoy! I’m not 100% sure how to go about this in a way that feels right to me, so it’s a long-term, eventual goal.
  • Sort out my feelings on lifestyle blogging vs. mommy blogging, and how that will work into my life once the baby arrives. How much do I want to share? I’m not sure yet.

So… a few things that will hopefully be easy, and a few that will take some more work!


Check out Catherine’s blog, Walking with Cake, for her answers — I’m sure she has some great ones! — and as always, join in the conversation in the comments!

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More Belly: 15-18 Weeks

I hit 19 weeks tomorrow but thought I’d share this now! I know it’s been a baby-centric week here on the blog; I promise now that the boy/girl suspense is over things will be a little more varied. :)

15-18 weeks

A little less lazy at 18 weeks? :)

15 Weeks

The weirdest part of this week was the sudden, never ending hunger. One of my friends welcomed me to the life of a teenage boy which made me laugh — and shake my head because it was true. I’d fill up on something, then an hour or two later, be STARVING. Full on ravenous. Not ‘oh, I’m a bit hungry’ but stomach growling, FEED ME NOW OR ELSE hunger.

Other than that, the whole second trimester awesomeness was starting to kick in a bit. I decided to quit my meds for good and spent one day really sick but it was definitely a lot more manageable. Emotionally I was kind of struggling with body image as my belly grew bigger but getting excited about the baby as a tangible thing now that we were out of the first trimester danger zone. And I was not so patiently awaiting baby movement!

16 Weeks

Apparently it’s tradition for me to fall down the stairs on my turnover day. I hit 16 weeks, walked down the stairs feeling perfectly fine, then suddenly I was falling. This time I slid down four or five of them on my back and elbow, leading to a delightful bruise, rug burn, and my ligaments saying “WHAT DID YOU DO?!” and feeling sore for the rest of the night.

I had a doctor’s appointment that week, during which everything was basically totally normal and a-okay (after hearing about my stairs incident the doctor told me to get up like an old lady). They planned to set us up with an anatomy scan sometime within the next few weeks which was exciting, save for the part where I had to call a jillion times to try to sort out when it’d be (after waiting an extra two weeks last time I didn’t want it to happen again).

My nausea kind of came back, along with some headaches and dizziness. I think part of that had to do with the weather and environment though. I also started to get REALLY tired again!

17 Weeks

I started feeling little pulse-y, weird sensations but couldn’t figure out if it was baby or something else entirely. There was one day when I felt like something outright flipped in my belly! Here’s a weird thing… I discovered my stomach was crooked.

Along with that, heartburn made a reappearance. And nausea after eating. But I could stay up past 9 p.m. without falling asleep so that’s a bonus! I got the ultrasound appointment locked down this week after stressing out over it for awhile. So that was the most exciting part — knowing we’d get to see baby soon!

18 Weeks

I realized this week that the stretching, growing pain type feelings I was experiencing earlier had pretty much disappeared. Bonus symptoms this week: a freaky heart palpitation/can’t breathe feeling brought on by being overtired (I think it’s a bit of anxiety coming through? Who knows). Other than that it was status quo… a bit tired, a bit nauseous, a bit of heartburn but overall doing quite alright.

The biggest piece of excitement was obviously the ultrasound — knowing that baby is all good is a great feeling! That, and knowing my anterior placenta will make feeling movement come a bit more slowly helps explain why those kicks and jabs aren’t coming through too much.

Having seen her on the screen and knowing that she’s a girl (with a name!) has really driven this whole pregnancy thing home — it’s crazy how much more like a baby she looks now, compared to the last time we saw her at 8 weeks — she was just a fuzzy blob then! Watching her wiggle around, seeing her face (well… hearing what Matt and the tech thought of her face) has left me spending a lot more time thinking about who she’s going to be on the outside, what she’ll be like, who she’ll look like… I’m so happy she’s in our lives already, and I’m looking forward to meeting her when she’s all ready to come out!

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What to Wear: Ice Cream Date

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Mmmm, ice cream. There are three places to get it in town — a convenience store that’s always open, an ice-cream only store that’s open seasonally, and most recently, gelato at one of the coffee shops. I discovered last week that if I’m going out for ice cream and walking home… I need something that I can spill on. ;)

What to Wear

Mind the pasty legs. :) I’ve only made it out to the beach once! Other than showing off my paleness, these shorts are awesome: they don’t have a waistband, so they’re suuuuper comfy. Good for eating ice cream! The shirt has enough of a crazy pattern that spills can be camouflaged (it also camouflages the growing belly!), and the shrug helps tie it all together, I think.

Shrug: Forever 21 | Tank: Walmart, a zillion years ago | Shorts: Motherhood Maternity

Check out my fellow What to Wear-ers over at Nicole’s blog… and maybe get some ice cream?

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